TWELVE EVOLUTIVE CONTACTIONS

1- The other does not exist to please you or to dislike you. The other one exists to teach you.

2- No one is guilty of what you're feeling. You're the one who opts for the feelings you have right now. Just you

3- The art of living without expectations, but with perspective is the key to not frustrating yourself.

4- Heal in yourself the addiction to the need for approval of the other. Only then can you enjoy the boldness and natural confidence of your spirit, your essence.

5- You have no control of anything, no matter how much you believe you do.
Give up control, only then will you have dominion over yourself and your life. Control is a reflection of fear, already domain is a reflection of the state of absolute absence of internal tensions and your encounter with peace.

6- Don't uncharacterize yourself to try to ′′ fit ′′ in the tight space of the thought that the other has towards you.

That won't work. When you cancel yourself out to please someone, your light goes out and it's just you, who stays in the dark feeling lost.

7- Don't believe what others say to you, however romantic and poetic it may be.

What matters is attitudes and not words.

8- Abandon pride and delusion of believing that everything will be as you want, desire or need.

9- Everything is fleeting. Up close life is a tragedy, by far it's a comedy. In a while you'll laugh at all the dramas you've created. For everything passes. All of it.

10- You are responsible for everything happening in your life. Your predominant thoughts and feelings will shape your reality, whether you like it or not. So if you want to change your reality, change your thoughts and feelings.

11- Emotional deficiency is not the need to receive, but to give yourself. Only you can supply your emotional needs.

Projecting them on someone is the same as asking for someone to feed to quench your hunger.

12- Live with simplicity and more reality.

Only then, who you really are, will really emerge. Laugh more and don't take everything so seriously. After all, the essence of life is to discover and enjoy this wonderful adventure called evolution.

Joanna de Angelis -
Book:Intimate Reformation

PUBLISHED FROM La Luz News - USA